Should I stay or should I go – I know this dreaded feeling, the weight and heaviness of being stuck in an unhappy relationship, running this question over and over in your mind? Feeling lost with who you are, lacking confidence and frustrated at yourself and the continuous unhealthy pattern you are in. I know all the emotions that go round and round making you feel unsure of the answer, or more so afraid of it. But if you’ve been asking yourself this question for a while, then isn’t it time you found your strength and made a decision that’s going to put you back in the driving seat of your life and your happiness.
Hey Lovely Lady I’m Keeley!
I know how hard it is to take that first step towards leaving an unhappy relationship; It was a step I avoided for while, but a step I’ve taken twice in my life. One allowed me to let go of an unhappy relationship and the other meant I totally transformed my current one. Confused? Don’t worry, there’s more about me over my story, but for now this is all about your journey. I am not here to tell what decision you should make but rather to help you find the strength to make a decision that’s right for you and your relationship!
My mission is to empower women to know their worth and inspire them to find their strength, so they can transform or leave their unhappy relationship
So What Do I Do…
I truly believe that if you want to have an amazing and healthy relationship, then you first need to have this with yourself. How we allow others to treat us stems from what we think and believe about ourselves. I coach incredible women just like you, who have forgotten how amazing they are.
Too often I hear of women staying in an unhappy or unhealthy relationship, all because they don’t believe they can have more or they fear what’s on the other side. If you have been conditioned to believe that ‘relationships are just like this’ or that you need to settle and succumb to a life of misery for the sake of being with someone, I am here to shake that myth and tell you some home truths. If you fear being lonely and of never again finding love, then it’s time you started believing in yourself and the powerful worthy woman you are, because you are more than ENOUGH for the right person.
Here’s the cold hard truth, You won’t be right for everyone and some people will not appreciate all you are, but guess what…that’s ok. When you understand and believe in yourself, you gain clarity on what you want from your relationship and your partner. Being confident with who you are regardless of what your partner thinks of you is the real key to standing in your power. You are a unique and amazing woman, you just need to love yourself enough to believe that you can have the kind of relationship you want and deserve.
With my support and guidance I help you get back to having an amazing relationship with yourself, because this really is the most important relationship you will ever have. Finding self love and self acceptance will build your self esteem, confidence and self worth, giving you the strength you need to stand up and demand the kind of relationship you deserve. You have to be your own biggest fan and believe that you are worthy of having a loving happy relationship, because you are!
What’s Going On For You…
So if you’ve been stuck going round on the same hamster wheel with all those feelings of hopelessness, the constant arguments, trying to prove yourself or change who you are to please your partner, or desperately trying to make your partner be who you want them to be, then I need you to know that it’s time to LET GO. Relationships take work and more than anything they take two people willing to equally give it a go. You cannot change another person FACT! But what you can do is take control and work on yourself. Accepting who you are and honouring your needs and desires, will build your confidence and give you the strength and clarity you need to make the decision that’s right for you. Either way taking control and working on yourself will change the dynamic of your relationship.
Why Are YOU Here…
It’s easy to fall into an unhealthy pattern when your love somebody and when you want the fairy tale but you really do have the power within you to change your life and your relationship right now. If you’re reading this then I’m guessing you want change. You are here for a reason, but it’s your choice…are you going to be the woman who continues to ignore her feelings and lives that unhappy life down in ‘Denial Avenue’, or are you the women who has decided that enough is enough. That you are done with this unhappy relationship, that you want to feel empowered, back in control of your life and confident with who you are and the decision you have made regardless of it’s outcome.
You my lovely were born ENOUGH, you are ENOUGH and you always will be. It’s time to step into your POWER, to believe in yourself and finally transform or let go of that relationship that isn’t aligned to what you want and deserve.